"I don't understand you."

Hi Reader,
Wherever you are right this second, and whatever you are doing, my hope for you is that you are feeling positive about your life's trajectory, and that you are taking good care of your self on all levels. In whatever ways you are approaching your endeavors, may they be true to your self.

In my opinion, it'd also be super-cool if everyone could feel understood by those in their closest circles, and experience no-strings-even-remotely-attached support in all undertakings.

Love without guilting.
Relationship without put-downs.
High-fives without eye-rolls.
Connection without condemnation.

Has anyone ever asked or said to you: "I don't understand you."..."Why did you do it that way?"..."This would make more sense for you."

Did it feel like they were really saying: "Why aren't you more like me?"..."I don't really care enough to talk with you, but I'll make the time to speak at you."..."You're an absolute tool not to do things as I would."

The life-sucking exchange can be easy to overlook, especially if the habitual line stepper is used to you and others politely taking it, trying to see from their perspective. But after making an honest effort, one simply doesn't have to take it any longer. The moment you realize that you can casually moonwalk out the door and leave the bad vibes behind, you take a giant step toward revealing to your self some truths.

You begin to see a world full of beings who all want to encourage, support, inspire, and share. And the world full of these beautiful bundles of existence sees you, too.

Your life becomes freer and clearer. Things that once seemed impossible become possible. The permeable layer that was once conditioned to allow in and retain only that which harmed, begins to deflect what is not life-giving.

If you're an actual mover of other people's luggage, then thank you for your work in the hotel and accommodations industry. I hope you're finding as much work as you want these days. But if you're not an actual bellhop, then you can, kindly and without spite, let go of that figurative role now by releasing all the emotional and energetic and very heavy baggage you've been carrying around for others, and for which you have zero responsibility.

As you become what you've always really been, others will go off and become what they've really been all along, too. The illusion of separation will fade away, and we will all eventually return to the same community beach to swim, splash, and be together as the water itself, even if you're like me now and don't enjoy water sports so much. Everything will be okay. Everything is okay.

Peace,
Tommy

P.S. - If you're looking for some no-strings-even-remotely-attached support, feel free to schedule a complimentary Strategy Session with me. If you're sick and tired of looking for whatever it is you desire, then there's no need to do anything at all.